| | After speakin to Zhu and the gals this afternoon, have all come to unanimous conclusion that niceness and bein interesting is inversely related.
We've all dated nice guys...but dear God, they're SO boring we wouldn't wanna be stuck in the same room alone together...would die of boredom. Especially engineers. AVOID like plague at ALL costs. OK I'll make an exception for a certain photographer-engineer-hiphop DJ hahaha ;p
I remember talkin about this with Daddy, who once memorably commented after I dumped certain bf, "I'm so glad you ditched him, he's so boring." Hahahaha, gosh, my Dad is so cool. He also came up with this gem of a line,"Guys who don't have any vices can't have many virtues either." Hah, I'm sure he won't feel the same way if his daughter dates some bikeriding-chainsmokin-gamblin-druggie pothead of a player. Which I won't of cos, gotta be kiddin...but he's got a point. I reckon the boys gotta try everything, get it all out of their system (been there done that) before they start being mature. Don't think I can date some naive sanitised fanatically Christian goody-two-shoes type.
Zhu was also talkin abt this girl who's really nice, with 'not one mean and bitchy bone in her body'. I, of course, joked that I doubted me and said girl would be able to get along, hahaha...I think I'd be so concerned with comin across politically correct and 'nice' (so as not to corrupt her pristine self), that I'd totally annoy myself to no end, hahaha. Think I rather be known as wicked and interesting but loved by family and close friends, than be known as dull but nice, and liked by one and all. Gah, who needs the approval of the masses? Like I said, those who mind don't matter, and those who matter, don't mind.
We also compared pet peeves about girls. We don't take very kindly to girls who:
1) are neurotic
2) are indecisive
3) have no opinions
4) are too opinionated (gotta know when to speak up and shut up)
5) complain and whine but do nothing to improve their situation
6) throw away all rationality when bein emotional
7) are too 'ku-niang'
8) treat every other girl as competition
9) viciously bitchy (very different from frivolous bitchin)
10) abandon their galpals when they get attached
God, why are we slaggin off our own sex? Hmm. Ah well, we're bein objective.
Urgh, friends jus told me they're headin to winebar and wala later. Damn damn double damn. |
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